I started blogging in 2002 on Myspace.
As hip as Myspace was, I had exactly zero readers and closed up shop after a year.
In early 2003, I was at home. Mr Coffee and I were raising our young family and I needed a healthy outlet.
I wasn't scared to show the warts and all of being a Mom but I was more than a Mom. I got to rattle my brain a bit and wrote honest talk of my mental health, relationships, finances, kids, and all the things rolling around inside.
I craved honest talk. Readers didn't get me. I've never been the Pollyanna or go with the flow type so I've always felt a bit of an outlier. God is enough and I am fallible.
Bee Repartee was born as a conglomerate of what was important to me. Didn't have all the answers. I joked about things that others tried to hide. Eating gluten, laundry piles, job or school, less than angelic kids, dirty ovens, mental health, and balancing life so husbands don't get left with the dregs. This is the internet. Everyone put on their relatable colored lenses.
I sought relatable friends, real, honest, and as happy for my successes as I was for their real, honest moments. The people I met over this decade are those I've grow to know personally and consider dear friends.
Blogging turned me a bit inward; an action I hadn't consciously decided. I slowly discovered me.
After my youngest was born, I became a seeker: a catalyst of proliferated self-honesty. I nurtured my logical, introspective, introverted, and creative sides. Was diagnosed with OCD. The obsessive part, rather than the impulsivity was why I couldn't let things go. I gave myself permission to never be ashamed by me. To do better. To be better for myself. It was the most liberating, and growth-filled time of my life.
Today, I am still a work in progress. I do what scares me. I am not afraid to fail. I am thankful. Inspired to give. Encouraged to find the best in others, especially myself. Give myself permission, that its okay to not be okay. To recognize when and how to let go. Freedom to laugh at anything good or bad that comes down the pike. Permission to feel and feel deeply. Grace enough that I know faith guides me even on completely awful days. To be perfectly and wonderfully made, quirks, morals, convictions, and neuro-spicy brain included.
Lastly, the bad days never outweigh the good days.
You'll see this over the years of my blog. You may be surprised by an openness that says, "...Yeah? Me, too. Let's hang out for a while."
Welcome to my blog. You're nice. We should be friends.
Bee likes good repartee.
Listening to: Good Day by Angels and Airwaves
updated 04/2025